Self-Care for Mom: Because you deserve to stay in one piece too

Motherhood is a beautiful and rewarding journey, but it can also be overwhelming and demanding. As a mom, it's easy to put your own needs on the back burner while caring for your family. However, prioritizing self-care practices is not only beneficial for you but also for your entire family. Some of these practical tips will help you to integrate self-care practices into your busy life.

The Impact of Self-Care on Well-Being: Self-care is not a luxury; it's a necessity for moms. Taking care of yourself allows you to recharge, maintain physical and emotional health, and prevent burnout. When you prioritize self-care, you're better equipped to handle the challenges of motherhood and provide the love and support your family needs. I recently shared on my social media that even when I’m tired or have to make last-minute adjustments, I’m not on edge because I have daily practices that literally support my sanity! By nourishing yourself, you create a positive ripple effect that benefits your children, partner, and everyone around you.

  1. Identifying Self-Care Practices: Self-care looks different for every mom, as it should align with your unique needs and interests. Here are some steps to identify self-care practices that might work for you:

    • Self-reflection: Take the time to understand what brings you joy, relaxation, and rejuvenation. Reflect on activities, hobbies, or moments that make you feel good and replenish your energy.

    • Prioritization: Make self-care a non-negotiable part of your routine. Dedicate specific time slots each day or week for self-care activities, treating them as important appointments that cannot be skipped.

    • Start small: Incorporate simple self-care practices into your daily life, such as taking a few minutes for deep breathing exercises, enjoying a cup of tea, or indulging in a favorite book or TV show.

    • Experiment and adjust: Try different self-care activities and see what resonates with you. It's okay to explore and adapt as your needs change over time. I used to be able to work out at home, but I now crave that time outside of my home space. I’m less distracted and totally off-duty!

  2. Practical Self-Care Tips for Busy Moms: Finding time for self-care as a busy mom can be challenging, but it's not impossible. Consider the following tips:

    • Delegate and ask for help: Reach out to your partner, family members, or friends for support in caring for your child(ren). Allow yourself to ask for help when needed, freeing up time for self-care.

    • Embrace self-care in small moments: Make the most of everyday moments by incorporating self-care. Practice mindfulness during mundane tasks like cooking or showering, or find joy in activities like listening to uplifting podcasts while running errands. Showers and podcasts are in my top 5 ways to restore!

    • Create a supportive network: Connect with other moms who understand your challenges virtually or in person. Share self-care ideas, experiences, and encourage one another to prioritize well-being.

    • Set boundaries: Learn to say no to commitments that drain your energy or take away from your self-care time. Establish clear boundaries around your personal time and communicate them to your loved ones.

As a mom, investing in self-care is not selfish; it's an essential step towards gaining control of healthy behaviors and nurturing your overall well-being. By prioritizing self-care, you become a happier, more resilient, and more present mother. Remember, self-care is not about perfection or adding more to your to-do list; it's about carving out time for yourself, even in small ways. Embrace self-care as a vital part of your journey, and watch how it positively impacts both your and your family's well-being.

Xo, Nelly

Jenell Steele